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Sunday, November 28, 2010

Hiatus and what I've learned so far...

I sigh aloud, but the good kind of sigh- of relief. I have wanted to explain my closing shop actions since doing it weeks ago. I still can't really give public details, but I was sidelined by circumstances beyond my control. it happens. To a crafter in their first year of serious business, LLC creation and determined hard work, well, it was a blow. It is wonderful to see the public embracing the giving of homemade goods this season. I truely do wish my hair accessories could be more of a part of that. You can still find a few at Verve Hair Studio in Lancaster and The Lancaster Hodge Podgery, and if you are in Alaska Babes in the Woods also carries Peachy Tuesday. I have been doing my best not to think about how it makes me grind my teeth that they could have been more places...

Another sigh, still slightly relieving with a heart palpitation of irritation on the back end.

I admit the time off has been mostly really super awesome. This time to be freer, more at ease, less stressed, is great, wonderful, healthy. It has given me more time to pay attention to my health, home, husband, children and of course other crafty stuff I never had time to work on! I have even gotten into work at my desk job a few extra hours (twice!) over the past two weeks.


I think Peachy Tuesday will be, less, when she returns December 13th. I think her owner needs to be a hobbyist, not because I think that's what would sell her the most stuff. It will need to be that way for my reasons, personally. They may not be pioneering the Indie Craft movement anyplace, they may not sound the most passionate, but in reality, they are, so Passionate. What I am most passionate about is love. I feel lucky to be blessed with so much love in my life. I adore my family, my home, my husband most in this life. I want to, need to, cultivate that foremost. I want Peachy Tuesday to be a facet that makes us glimmer as the homebody family we are, not make us clouded because Mommy is sitting at the computer or making things tirelessly all the time.


What do I love about my business? When people love my creations and can see the time and heart that went into them. I love when I make a customer happy. I'll still do that. I just won't be shoving the stuff down everyone's throat via facebook posts and I am so DONE with Twitter. I'll keep my fans updated using facebook just not All The Time. My guess is that it won't even change my sales. Either way, I don't care.

ps: That date (12/13) is concrete, so if you wanted to give a Peachy Tuesday items for a holiday gift visit one of the places mentioned above before 12/13 or jump on my shop that day for open-ness. I'll do my best to ship things super duper fast!

Thanks to all of those that are aware of more details about my temporary closing and have sent words of encouragement, and support. I cherish you all very much. Again, I am lucky to have all of you.

9 comments:

Blackjaw said...

Yes, the "blow" did suck...majorly. I do have to say, you do seem more relaxed and the quality of time we share is definitely awesome. I still love you the same, no matter if you are super busy or not. You rock as a mom, wife, and as a creative minded woman. I will support less or more Peachy.

sjchunko said...

Good for you for taking a break and making sure you and your family are happy and healthy. I've given up the attempt at super mom/super crafter...for your exact reasons, no woman can do it all for very long. I love your stuff and am always thrilled to see your new creations. I'm sure if you are rested, then your creativity will become even stronger. Best of luck Peachy Tuesday! I wish you health and happiness this holiday season!

Jen said...

husband, you are the greatest. on many levels and in many ways. xoxo. Steph, thank you for commenting:) I am glad I am not alone in realizing we CANNOT do it all. Truth is some people's tolerance is higher, I mean some can handle more. I think the hiatus (so far) has taught me to be ok with not being able to do as much as some can do happily. I need more calm than some, and that is ok!

Heather Gallagher said...

I too am feeling the same way Jen. TODAY was my last official craft show and it feels wonderful and my family has been rejoicing :-) My house has been cleaner than it has been in a long time, because I have just been focusing on clearing out what I already have rather than stressing over making a ton of stock that would hopefully sell. I am ready to get back into crafting for fun and NOT the sewing kind of crafting. I have so many crafty sides of me and I am done limiting myself to sewing. IT FEELS GREAT! and enjoy your time, your family, your LIFE! We should get together over the holiday break.

Jenny said...

You say it so beautifully and, as a small business gal and mama myself, you speak right to my heart. I love your grace, your honesty and the peace that you've found in this break. You rock!

Jen said...

Thank you ladies, It really makes it even more of a relief to know I am not alone in these feelings and actions. @Heather, we should get together!

brookiellen said...

hey jen- i completely agree with you on so many levels. My shop is closed for an undetermined amount of time right now (mostly due to having a baby in 10 weeks), and I already feel less stressed out. I am so excited to just spend time with my boys and not feel like I need to keep up with orders. Also, I feel like I'll have more time to be creative in other ways!!

I'm glad you are enjoying your break and I hope that you guys have a great holiday season :)

Jen said...

thanks Brooke, for commenting. It's great that you are taking off too. This time of year is the best for focusing on family. I am still dying to know the name of this boy btw...;)

Stratoz said...

wonderful post. Hope all is well and much joy is still flowing because of your hiatus. I truly believe we unfold into our life and it is important that with what we control we move towards joy, hope, and love. I thought about trying to earn another degree a few years back, but decided it would mean giving up something and nothing wanted to be given up.